Where to find love
Each woman would like love – mutual and till the end of life that is called: have fallen in love, have lived long happy life and have died in one day. But presently such relations – a curiosity, even it is possible to tell, past “museum piece”.
Women in a greater degree, than men, neudovletvorenny the life, self. Sometimes there is a question: can, in me something not so because of what I cannot find the half on for the rest of the life? After all in the beginning relations there was a love, the big pure feeling. But why it so quickly disappears?
I had an acquaintance who constantly cruelly derided acquaintances at people, and, scoffed at any physical defects or over defects, in its opinion, in clothes. And the husband at it was “under a heel”. But thus always complained that at them with the husband (not the first under the bill) is not present mutual understanding, harmonies, do not develop relations.
Other acquaintance on the contrary – the person soft, kind, pleasant in dialogue. But the husband walks. At them two children, and he is not going to get divorced from it, but also does not want to refuse a life freestyle. And, I heard, how it praised the wife and said that terpimee the woman did not meet. But the woman is unfortunate. All the husband – but walking is good. Such blow on female vanity. Eternal findings-out in itself: I mean not the best, than I do not suit it.
Here also it turns out, you can be the kind and tolerant or finished stinker – and the love all the same is not present. It does not depend on your qualities. You can follow councils of psychologists, but for some reason does not help. And people if live together are already satisfied with the material benefits, habitual comfort, or them “hold” children, – the pair has no feeling of love. And life passes against disappointment which during the moments of conflicts leaves as mutual recriminations and insults. The high, eternal love remains only illusion.
That we accept in the beginning of relations for love, – only the passion caused by sexual hormones. But passions have settled, on the foreground there is a life, joint residing, concessions – and there and then “love” leaves, as more pleasant sensations were replaced with much less pleasant. Means, the love never and was not. And in vain we suffer, we search, we suffer?
The love in habitual our understanding really is not present. We search for it between bodies, and it is realised as communication between souls. Love definition as feelings as a certain morally-ethical communication – it is uniform for everything, and not just for the man and the woman.
The true love is when we will learn to feel any other person, as ourselves when its troubles and pleasure will be ours when we will not do to another that is hated to us. And the person attracts to such love. He constantly searches for it, despite all errors and disappointments.
It is necessary to wish only all of us faster to come to this spiritual communication between all people therefore as from desire to be favourite and happy all the same anywhere you will not get to.