D lja that that mutual relations between two loving people remained constantly at high level important that partners paid attention to their development and preservation. For this purpose it is necessary to show understanding in relation to each other.
Has imparted mutual relations
When between two people there is especially quivering feeling is only the first step to become closer. The second stage will be much more difficult, as consists in saving love in that kind as it has arisen. Some councils for this purpose will help:
To live joking. Important, despite complexity of a current situation all to perceive with sense of humour. Then it is possible to live easily and simply. Then problems will dare by itself and it will be possible to give more attention to development of mutual relations.
Avoiding of disputes. Certainly, in life often there are disputable, at times even conflict situations and between loving people. It is important to be able to listen to the partner and to find the conciliatory proposal. Continue reading
Relations – a piece difficult and not always they turn out ideal. More precisely even to tell that practically always there are complexities which need to be overcome. Together.
When something does not suit you in relations with darling, the husband or the wife, the girl or the guy, first of all, it is necessary to define what exactly you would like to change in mutual relations with the favourite. That, in your opinion, does not suffice in behaviour of your partner that relations brought pleasure and did you happy. Indistinct formulations, the type «does not suffice Me your attention”,”It would be desirable, that you thought more (and cared (las) of me”,”You could (la) to give to me to more time» will not approach. Very important correctly and accurately to express the feelings and desires so that darling had “guide to action”. Concrete formulations allow to measure result. It is important also that you expressed the desires in the positive form (without a particle “not”) and gave the detailed description to desirable behaviour. For example, you want, that the partner of more time devoted to you then it is possible to express the desire as follows:« I want, that we once a week suited a romantic supper Continue reading
I can not make a choice between children and favourite on the party
Hello, Arina. I want to tell the story, to hear the answer and to understand that to me to do further. Though inherently – the history is banal. Has got acquainted with the future wife 14 years ago, have got married in 2 years. In three years after wedding have left under my initiative. Life was not took, tormented shame before the wife; has confessed, in half a year have converged again. In 2007 the first daughter was born. In 2010 the second.
And in 2010, leaving for new work, has met Her. It during that moment was married, but children were not. The mutual sympathy in half a year has outgrown in huge mad love, mutual feelings, vzroshchennye not only on passion, but on the help, understanding and respect. Soon I have left this work, but we continued to meet, call up. The wife has learnt. Wild scandal,a terrible devastation, a failure in all. Did pauses in meetings with favourite, thought that will pass, but is not present. Dries from within. Continue reading